Greetings!
For today's post i will appoint a topic about "How to Socialize in College?"
The word 'socialize' itself is hate to be heard by the one who are not interested in making friends or making a contact with others. They tend to be all alone and always avoiding from socializing with their colleagues. Whether they like it or not, they have to socialize in order to survive in college or else, they will not. Might as well as you.
These people are called as "Introvert". These people love to be own their own and minimize their contact with people. This is a serious case for those who might have this problem to socialize in their college because there is so much consequences in not socializing with the colleagues, such as depression,anxiety,having difficulties in independent learning,getting bullied,taken for granted and so much more.
This is not a syndrome or a serious disease for the ones who is introvert. This is because they might be not know how to blend in with their colleagues or they might be just shy, that is a normal case among the students nowadays.
so here are the tips for those who have a problem with socializing with people, approach people,just be yourself and
Firstly, try to approach your colleagues and introduce yourself to them and you ask them to introduce theirs,or simply saying 'Hello'. this is the most basic step into getting to know each other. no one will ever ignore you with that kind of approach. it is a normal human being do in human relationship.so do not be afraid to try! that is a process where you lessen your anxiety in socializing with people.
Next step is, just be yourself. people will always love the one who with a great personality and approachable, which means that you cannot be the one who is with a fake personality. Be friendly with the others might help you getting friends and they will attracted with a person who is friendly because they are approachable.just shine out your true-self personality. Being friendly means with a good behaviour,not the bad one.
The final step is,be funny. this is the most favorite person that will be love by everyone.
Being funny doesn't mean that you have to do jokes all the time. being funny where you make unexpected jokes and humor with others.people will love to be around a person with a good sense of humor. try it! believe it or not, you will gain more friends more than you expected.
So those are the steps on how to socialize in College, approach people, just be yourself and be funny. hope they might help you to socialize happily!
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