Hello!
Familiar with the word 'Backstabber'? yes, everyone are familiar with
that word. A backstabber pretends to be your best buddy, only to turn around
and betray you, spreading lies and hurtful gossip. Whatever the reason behind
this behavior, it's important to protect yourself from it. If the situation
continues, you'll need to find a way to end its effect on your life, whether by
repairing your relationship with the backstabber or moving on.
As a student,
what should you do to avoid backstabber?
Hello!
Familiar with the word 'Backstabber'?
yes, everyone are familiar with that word. A backstabber pretends to be your
best buddy, only to turn around and betray you, spreading lies and hurtful
gossip. Whatever the reason behind this behavior, it's important to protect
yourself from it. If the situation continues, you'll need to find a way to end
its effect on your life, whether by repairing your relationship with the
backstabber or moving on.
As a student, what should you do to
avoid backstabber?
1)
Check
and cross check your stories before acting on them.
Things expand in translation as
others spread rumors and maybe you're over-reacting to something that hasn't
really happened the way it was told to you. If it is true though, proceed.
2)
Build
good relationships with everyone around you.
Try to
be friendly and positive, even when dealing with people you don't know. Even if
someone turns on you anyway, others will be less likely to side against you.
If you're at work, treat everyone
with respect, not just immediate coworkers and bosses. If you're too focused on
those relationships, you could carelessly give a receptionist, intern, or lower
level employee a reason to hold a grudge against you.
3)
Learn
to spot the signs of backstabbing as early as possible.
The longer a backstabber is allowed
to spread lies or sabotage you, the harder it will be to repair the damage. If
you can spot signs of backstabbing early, this can help you to head the acts
off before they increase. Look for the following warning signs:
False rumors reach you about what
you've supposedly done or said.
You said something in private, and
now everyone knows you said it.
People stop entrusting you with
information, assigning you tasks at work, or asking you to events that they
once did.
People act cold or unfriendly toward
you for no clear reason.
4)
Understand
that not all irritating behavior is a sign of backstabbing.
Make sure you're
not making a mountain out of a molehill in assuming that someone is a
backstabber. Some poor behaviors, such as being persistently late, sloppy, or
selfish are a sign of a thoughtless person, not necessarily a scheming
backstabber. The occasional minor slip-up, such as canceling lunch at the last
minute or neglecting to return a phone call, is not a sign of backstabbing
either.
above of all, all you need to do is--
Stay calm.
Sometimes people do nasty things, and sometimes this results
in betrayal. Reacting with outrage won't fix the situation. It is better for
you, both now and in the long run, to remain calm and focus on practical
matters. Don't ignore the situation, but go about your daily life without
obsessing over the outrageous behavior.
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